Why life is not a problem to be solved
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Viewing life as a problem to be solved implies a few things that you may find limiting toward being StarCozi.
Suggests a definitive solution exists
Problems typically have solutions. If life were a problem, we could logically seek a final answer, a state of complete resolution where all difficulties are eradicated. However, life is characterized by constant change, uncertainty, and the emergence of new challenges. There’s no ultimate solution to being alive.
Encourages a goal-oriented, achievement-focused approach
Solving a problem involves identifying a goal and working toward it. Applying this framework to life can lead to a relentless pursuit of achievements and external validation, potentially at the expense of appreciating the present moment and the inherent value of simply being.
This problem-solving mindset can lead to a feeling of constantly needing to fix oneself or one’s circumstances, rather than accepting the inherent imperfections and complexities of life.
Can lead to dissatisfaction and a sense of perpetual lack
If life is a problem, then any state short of the solution can be perceived as a failure or an indication that something is wrong. This can foster a persistent feeling of dissatisfaction, even amidst positive experiences.
The focus on solving implies a future state of fixedness that is rarely, if ever, fully attained, leading to a cycle of striving and potential disappointment.
Overlooks the subjective and experiential nature of life
Problems are often objective and have measurable outcomes. However, the meaning and value of life are deeply subjective and lie in the experiences, connections, emotions, and personal growth we encounter along the way. These aspects are not easily solved.
Reducing life to a problem to be solved can diminish the richness, nuance, and inherent mystery of human existence.
Can foster a sense of control where little exists
While we have agency within our lives, many aspects – from the natural world to the actions of others – are beyond our control. Trying to solve these uncontrollable elements can lead to frustration and a feeling of powerlessness.
Instead of a problem to be solved, what if life was a:
Journey to be experienced: Emphasizing the process, the learning, the connections, and the unfolding of events.
A mystery to be explored: Acknowledging the inherent unknowns and embracing curiosity and wonder.
Gift to be cherished: Focusing on gratitude and appreciating the opportunities and moments we have.
Process of growth and becoming: Recognizing that life is about continuous learning, adaptation, and evolution.
Canvas for creation: Emphasizing our ability to create meaning, beauty, and connection.
By shifting away from the problem-solving paradigm, we can cultivate a more accepting, present-focused, and ultimately more fulfilling way of engaging with the complexities and uncertainties of life. It allows us to embrace the full spectrum of human experience, including joy, sorrow, struggle, and wonder, not as obstacles to overcome, but as integral parts of being alive.
